5 Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Buying an Engagement Ring (And How to Avoid Them)

For men planning a proposal in Lisbon, Portugal, or anywhere across Europe — this guide will save you stress, money, and time.

Buying an engagement ring is one of the most emotional decisions a man can make — but it’s also one of the most confusing ones. Whether you’re in Lisbon, living somewhere in Europe, or ordering a custom engagement ring online, these mistakes are incredibly common. Let’s make sure you avoid them.

1. Buying a Mass-Produced Ring That Has No Story

Most men choose the first ring they see in a big commercial jewelry store — but later regret that it looks exactly like thousands of others. Your love story isn’t mass-produced.
Your ring shouldn’t be either.

Avoid it:
Choose a bespoke engagement ring, handcrafted in Portugal, inspired by your story, not a corporate template.

 

2. Waiting Too Long (Especially Christmas & Before Valentine’s Day)

Custom rings take time.
Craftsmanship cannot be rushed — especially if you want a beautiful diamond or a handmade gold band.

Avoid it:
Start early. Whether you’re in Lisbon or ordering from another European country, we offer online consultations, 3D sketches, and updates so you can design your engagement ring from anywhere.  

3. Not Knowing Her Ring Size

Not knowing her exact ring size is more common than you think — especially when you’re planning a surprise proposal. 

And the good news? There are simple, discreet ways to get it right.

Avoid the guesswork:
Use one of the gentle techniques our clients across Portugal and Europe rely on:

• borrow a ring she wears on the ring finger for a quick measurement
• trace the inside circle of her ring on paper
• Try her ring on your pinky and mark where it stops.
• Press her ring softly into a bar of soap to get the imprint.
• Slide her ring onto a candle to mark the diameter.
• Take a photo of her ring next to a coin for scale.

And if the size isn’t perfect on the first try — don’t worry.
We’re always here to make any adjustments smoothly, so her ring fits beautifully and the moment stays magical.

4. Focusing Only on the Diamond (Instead of the Meaning)

Yes, diamonds are beautiful — but love comes in many colors.
And so do gemstones.

At Amaré, we curate a beautiful variety of diamonds and colored precious stones so you can choose the one that speaks to your story, your symbolism, and her personality.

Avoid it:
Choose a jeweler who guides you through meaning, not just measurement — including helping you discover a gem she’ll treasure for life.

5. Thinking You’re Not Creative Enough to Design a Ring

This is the biggest lie men tell themselves.
You don’t need to be an artist — just in love.

Avoid it:
We guide you step by step:

• online consultation
• 3D sketches & 3D Print
• gemstone selection
• design approval
• handmade crafting in Lisbon

Wherever you are in Europe — you can create something meaningful.

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Conclusion

Avoiding these mistakes will save you stress and help you create a ring she’ll cherish forever.

If you want a handmade custom engagement ring from Lisbon with a real story behind it — we’d love to guide you.